Sometimes when working with others, we don’t get to see the full outcomes of our work together. In many cases, the outcomes flow on for years afterwards, even through generations.  This is one of the reasons why pricing for transformational work is not transactional, but about resonance.

I was touched to receive a final check-in from Holly, who has just finished my new Wild Heart Program.  Before I post her words, I want to acknowledge this other side of the partnership in transformational work – the work of the client.

It takes great courage

It takes great courage and trust to be willing to not only experience your innermost feelings, desires and emotions, but to share them with someone else.  To be vulnerable in this way is ultimately an act of courage and love.  The effects can ripple out through families, communities, and beyond.

To be willing to face yourself, your pain, your longing, and the truest desires of your heart, is the work of a spiritual warrior.

You need to allow yourself to get messy, to unravel if need be, and to let go of what is no longer serving to make way for the new. It means taking responsibility for what arises in that process.

Above all it means choosing courage and love, over and over.

I want to honour all people who undertake this journey, wherever you may be, and however you do this. I especially want to acknowledge my clients, who have joined me in this journey.  It is an honour to work with you.

Introducing Holly …

Holly

I found the Wild Heart Program while searching for an alternative method of help after I started to feel disillusioned by the mainstream conventional therapies involving psychologists and medication.

I came across Lure’s work and was intrigued so I reached out and was instantly met with Lure’s kind hearted compassion a genuine eagerness to work with me. I was having difficulties overcoming feelings of anxiety and depression and moving on from a toxic relationship and I was also experiencing a heavy sense of unworthiness.

I wanted help finding direction and purpose as well as a way to cope with grief and methods to relieve my anxiety.

I had some concerns that the program wouldn’t be right for me and was skeptical that anything could help me after I’d already tried therapy with a psychologist. It felt like I was asking too much as I wanted so many different things.

However this was possible as the environment that Lure creates is warm, compassionate and loving and it made me feel at ease and comfortable enough to be able to open up and truly listen and share what I was feeling. Within six weeks I learned how to let go and open myself up towards a brighter future.

Each session was tailored to my needs and allowed me to explore my feelings, which was sometimes difficult as it can be quite scary confronting our subconscious, but during the program I constantly felt like I was sustained in a safe place of infinite love.

The changes I experienced are quite profound, and were noticed by close friends and family. I was able to take control of my anxiety and instead of letting it hinder my life, I was able to start doing the things I truly wanted to such as going out with friends, joining new social groups and stepping up into my roles at work. I also became more focused on the present and my future as opposed to dwelling on the past.

I can’t recommend this program enough. Lure has such a beautiful personality and working with her is a pleasure. It is a structured program with flexibility to accommodate individual needs and it really gives you enough space to work and grow at your own pace. There is never any pressure and no right or wrong.

I am so thankful I found Lure and worked through the Wild Heart Program. I really, truly believe that everybody can take something out of it and start living a much happier life. The highlight of the program is definitely being able to reflect on the first session and realising just how far I have come in such a short space of time. I feel loved, beautiful, strong and powerful and I am now able to put myself out into the world with a head held high.

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I’ve been clearing out my place, sorting through my things and giving away or throwing away things I no longer need, or that others might enjoy more.  What a process this is! When I started it felt so hard, almost impossible, and yet now it is getting easier and easier.

I feel better each time I give something away.  More energized, more alive, and I am seeing more and more possibilities.

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One of my singing teachers once taught me a breathing technique to help me find more ease with my singing.  I seemed to run out of breath too early, and then would tense up trying to get more breath.  He taught me to focus on getting to the end of the breath, and to release the very last of it, after which the in-breath would come flowing in naturally. No effort, no trying, and no struggle.

My whole experience of singing shifted

I had more breath, less stress, and enjoyed singing so much more.

I’ve found this applies to our emotions and past experiences as well. Just like the clearing of the physical, when we clear from past experiences, we free up energy.  Otherwise, it can be hard to enjoy what is here now, and to find that natural flow of aliveness and vitality.

Just as clearing out the old possessions can make room for the new, so does clearing the stuck energy in your being make room for newness and freshness in your life.

Sometimes these are relationships that we haven’t come to terms with, or they may be other experiences. Our energy becomes stuck, in our bodies and in our emotional fields, and we can find ourselves acting this out, rather than seeing each situation as it is now.

It’s not really that you are letting go the past, but rather letting go the held energy surrounding that event.

We are freeing ourselves to be more fully alive now. 

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One way to do this is to exercise, whether it be swimming, walking or whatever exercise you enjoy.  Simply moving and having the breath come fuller and deeper can bring about some of this release.

Another is the breath itself.  Here’s a simple practice to try. Take 5 deep full, connected breaths in the morning and in the evening.  By connected I mean to breathe fully, and relax on the out-breath. The point of surrender is at the turning of the breath.

As you breathe in, find that place of softening and surrender, as you release on the out-breath.  Then notice the same at the turn of the breath as you breathe out.  That space between breaths can be a so beautiful. Try it and see how you feel.

Just 5 breaths, that’s all. Once or twice a day.

As some of you may know, I started my journey about 30 years ago now with breath-work.  I worked with a breath-worker individually for some months, and then spent some years visiting wild places around Australia and doing breath-work sessions in these beautiful places.

I then trained as a breath-worker with Nemi Nath, over a couple of years, and returned for some years to work in workshops and trainings up there, and in Tasmania.

For years now I have been working mostly through energy work and journeys with clients and really love this. I recently started holding women’s circles.

I am now bringing breath-work in again. In truth, it has always been part of what I do, but in a very integrated way. Now I will be teaching it explicitly as well, and offering individual sessions and soon, groups.

To this end I would like to do some Breath and Energy sessions, combining breath-work with energy work.  I am deeply excited about this.

Calling for 3 people for Breath and Energy Program

To begin this, I am looking for 3 people, local to Hobart, Tasmania, who want to experience this.  This will involve 3 breath and energy sessions over as many weeks. The cost will be vastly reduced, and I will ask for detailed feedback at the end of your program.

If you are interested, please let me know by replying to this email, or calling me on 0458 910 469 and I can let you know more.

With love and appreciation,

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We are living in intense times, with access to so much information of events happening all around the world.  I hear daily from people who are struggling with this. Sometimes it can feel like the earth itself is shaking on its axis.

We are bombarded with information, with explicit images and videos of violence, death and torture.  While these can be the catalyst for bringing about changes at a political level, they also have can be overwhelming and distressing when watched without a filter, at any time of the day or night.  They can affect our wellbeing, and therefore our ability to take effective action about any of it.

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I want to offer just a few suggestions in dealing with this, small things that might just shift the quality of our days as we navigate these times.

Engaging consciously in social media and the news

One of the things that can be overwhelming is the sheer volume of news coming in about events taking place in the world. While it’s important to be aware of what is going on, we have a choice about how we engage.

We can choose to engage consciously in social media and the news. You get to choose how often you engage and how you do so.  Decide how often (each day or week?), and how (newspapers, video, news sites or news summaries?).

Bringing loving awareness

Once you have decided how and when you want to engage, the next step is to bring loving attention to it.   This is about truly witnessing, so that you are aware of what is going on, and holding a space of love as you watch.

It might be that you send a prayer for what you see, or witness with loving compassion, or do a ritual for the situation; whatever speaks to your heart.

Take action … know what is for you and what is not.

No one of us can do everything.  In times like these that it is even more important to get clear on what we feel called to do, and do it.  It may take some time to get clear, but it’s worth it. Then we do what we can, and let others do what they can.

It’s OK to stop for a while

It’s OK to have a fast from the media, to take time out and focus on other things.  To take care of yourself, your friends and families.  It’s important to take time to nourish your heart.

Connect with the earth, and what you love.

So often it is because of our love and caring that we are distressed when witnessing human rights abuses, terror events, or corruption.  Once we reconnect with this love, we tap into a source of strength that can carry us forward.  In this way our actions stem from love.

And finally … remember that this is not all there is

Know that what is in the media is not all there is. There is so much else going on each day. Acts of love and generosity. Moments of grace and beauty. A flower opening, a leaf falling in the wind. Sparkling snow on the mountain. Here is a photo I took just last weekend on the lower parts of Kunanyi/Mt Wellington, after a beautiful snowfall.

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And remember … not only what we love, but that we are loved. That we are love.

Over to you …

What do you do to stay strong during these intense times?  Please comment below.

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07. July 2016 · 4 comments · Categories: Blog

One of my favourite stories is from the west coast of Ireland, Scotland and further north, the story of the Selkie woman.

The Selkie woman, the seal-woman, comes ashore to bathe in the sun on the rocks. As she does this, she sheds her skin and takes human form.  The tales tell of a local man who comes across her, the most beautiful woman he has ever seen. He knows that if he can take her skin, she will be bound to him and have to marry him.

And so he does.

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They marry, and live mostly happy together, with two beautiful children. But there is a longing in her always, a longing for the ocean and for her loved ones there.  She goes to the water’s edge whenever she can, and is often to be found there, staring out to the sea.

But life goes on…

One day, many years later, she finds her skin hidden in a dark corner of their house, and she is off, back to the sea, and to her watery kin, where she spends the rest of her days.

Every so often she is seen swimming around the cove near the home of her children.

There are so many aspects of this story that resonate with women, but today I want to talk about longing. The longing that arises from the depths, as if from some inner spring that holds your deepest desires.

So often we can lose touch with these desires.

We can push them down or cut off from them to make them feel more acceptable or manageable.  Disappointment, relationship dynamics or trauma can all play their part.  We are trained through school, family, the media, to filter not only what we express, but what we allow ourselves to even experience.

This squashing down can lead to loss of passion, of energy, and a feeling of disconnection from life.

The journey of return to fullness is about undoing from all of this.  It is about coming back into your own skin and to the fullness of yourself, your desires and your deepest longings. There is such power in that.

I’d love to know… what are your deepest desires?  What are you longing to express? Come and share below.

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The first circle is in Hobart on 17th July.

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The Wild Heart Women’s Circle is an invitation to:

– Connect with and listen to your own embodied wisdom and knowing.

– Unravel from old habits that aren’t aligned with your deeper wisdom and true self.

– Connect with the earth and the natural world, and in doing so, awaken the wild soul within. Read more …

And finally… a Selkie song, which is one of my favourite songs ever, and is, to my ear, full of longing.

 

30. June 2016 · 5 comments · Categories: Blog

When I guided people on 8-day walks through the mountains of Tasmania, I would see a few things happen for those on the journey with me.

Some people would freak-out, in some small way, or not-so-small way.  Some would become super-active, focus on their goal, and walk faster and faster, trying to get to their destination for the day.  This was a sure recipe for exhaustion if they didn’t start to relax and settle into the journey.

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Others became super cautious, not wanting to take a step that was unfamiliar. This applied to the walking as well as the tasks around our evening camp. I remember one woman who had never drunk water that didn’t come out of a tap. Each day she would look for the water collected by us, and never once even thinking of getting it herself from the creeks all around us.

Another was a stressed doctor who would wake at all hours, ready to face the next emergency. He wanted a tent to himself, and had trouble talking with the other guests.

Yet as the days continued, something beautiful started to happen.

It’s as if they all started to drop into their skin, into their place on the ground out there. They started to change. 

We had started to become part of the landscape.  Soon, the mud was just a part of it all.  We were in one movement with each other, and with the birds above.

Those that were so busy getting to their destination started to slow down.  Even the separateness within the group started to dissolve.  The stressed out doctor gradually started to have the space and the interest to talk to the others in the group.  The young woman so fond of pre-packaged water finally went and got some water from the creek.

It’s as if they were not only dropping into their skin, but into place.  It is powerful, this belonging.

The fear of the unknown started to dissolve, and curiosity awoke. People started to notice more, the trees, the small lichen on the rock over there. That particular bird.

It didn’t mean it was perfect, in that conflicts still arose, and for many, it was only the start of this dropping, but still, the difference was more than noticeable.

The questions that so many had at the beginning- often fear generated requests for certainty – started to dissolve into a more feeling curiosity, exploring, wondering, connecting.

It can be a bit like this when we are looking at what we want to bring forward into the world.

So often we start with goals and plans, usually with anticipated effort.  We’ve all been trained so well in this approach, through our schooling and workplaces approaches.

But what if, instead, we start to drop more deeply into our skin, into this moment, this place, and open our senses to this?

What if we start from a different place, a deeper place?

I invite you now, wherever you are, to lay your plans aside for a moment, or a day, and take some time to settle into place. To feel this earth beneath you. To take some time to go outside, or to a park if that is near, or even where you are.  One tiny flower bursting through the concrete.  A moment to feel your place on this beautiful earth.  Here.  Now.

What if you are exactly where you should be?

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The next one starts in Hobart on 17th July, with others in the series on 24th July and 31st July.  There will be online courses coming up, so you can register your interest to hear first about these on the page.

The Wild Heart Women’s Circle is an invitation to:

– Connect with and listen to your own embodied wisdom and knowing.

– Unravel from old habits that aren’t aligned with your deeper wisdom and true self.

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15. June 2016 · 2 comments · Categories: Blog

The Winter Solstice is nearly here in Tasmania.  The days are getting shorter, the weather colder and I find myself just wanting to curl up, especially as light fades at the end of the day. I imagine that in generations gone by this is what would have happened. Our work stopping with the light, and people coming to rest early or gathering together to tell stories and sing together.

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The events at Orlando this week have been heart-breaking, especially for those in the LGBTQ community and in the United States.  My heart goes out to you, to all of us.  I’ve also seen such an outpouring of love over the past few days.

So much is being said and I have no great wisdom to add to this. Instead, I want to offer a little something that is calling to me right now.

To remember the earth. To let yourself curl up in grief, or pain, or with the winter dark. However you find yourself and whatever is going on for you. To drop into that embrace and let your skin be touched by the kiss of the air, and the warmth of the fire.  To let the tears fall. To howl into the night. To take a big out-breath and wait for that next in-breath to come. So gently.

There is time and space for all of this. It’s OK to stop for a while.  It’s necessary, even.

Love and blessings,

Lure

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I posted a video recently, titled: Why we need the whole of the feminine – the fierce as well as the gentle. If you missed it, you can see it here.

A few days later, someone wrote to me, saying that I had showed the soft and beautiful side of the feminine, and that maybe I should make one showing the fierce side. I considered this and this video is what emerged from that.  I hope you can watch.

I’d love to know how this lands for you and what the feminine means to you.  Please share in the comments below.

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I have a video for you today on the feminine and why this is so important not only for our wholeness as women but for us to bring our work into the world, and for the earth itself. It’s 3.01 minutes long.

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24. March 2016 · 4 comments · Categories: Blog

sharkI went for a swim today.  It was a beautiful autumn day, and the water was clear and gorgeous.  I haven’t been able to swim for the past 6 weeks or so, so it was a delight to jump in.

I started snorkeling just a couple of years ago.  One thing that always was kind of strange for me were my friends’ attitudes towards sharks.  Comments like, “So glad there are no sharks around here!” and, “Aren’t we lucky we don’t have to worry about sharks here? “(when discussing the shark attacks on the mainland), were uttered fairly frequently.

This just didn’t make sense to me. Sure, we are a bit cooler here in Tasmania than in the rest of Australia, but they can swim, right?  When I went swimming with my friends, sharks were always on my mind, especially as we went to deeper water.

Fast track to this summer, and now, over the past few months, sharks have been seen at a number of beaches, on the east coast of Tasmania, and on the beaches around Hobart.  Then, just last week, one was seen at a beach near the one I swim at the most.

So today I jumped in again, but a funny thing happened. Now that the presence of the sharks had been acknowledged, I was less worried about their presence!  I felt much freer swimming. I was still conscious of the possibility that one would be there, but it didn’t stop me enjoying myself.

I think there’s a lesson here for us about fear.

When we are contemplating changes, or a course of action, and don’t stop to acknowledge our fears, they can continue to affect us unconsciously.

On the other hand, once we acknowledge our fears, invite them into the conversation and hear what they have to tell us, it can free us to make informed choices, We can then make a decision about and move forward consciously.

I see at least three possibilities here, once we invite our fears to speak…

  1. We discover that the fears dissolve. We might discover that the fears were based on a false assumption, or something from the past that is no longer relevant.

         This can also be a doorway to healing these past hurts.

  1. We realise that there is a very real risk, which needs to be taken into account. We may choose to not go ahead, if the risk or danger is too great.
  1. We face our fears, and acknowledge the risk, and decide to go ahead anyway. In this way, we are moving forward fully conscious of the risks involved, and of our choice. We take responsibility for our actions, with open eyes.

In any case, whatever the result and the decision made, we are free to act in the moment, on the basis of what is actually happening.  We are then able to act from clarity and courage as we step forward.

I’d love to hear from you.  What fears have you felt holding you back, and what is your experience once you face them? Please comment below.

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10. March 2016 · 8 comments · Categories: Blog

20160107_080146I was in Sydney over the summer, and there were some wild days. I wrote this article on one wild morning there …

This morning I went for a swim at Bronte Beach in Sydney. The weather was wild and the waves huge. The ocean pool had waves crashing over the side, and rolling across the pool to smash against the rock wall at the other side.

I was standing at the bottom of the steps, thinking about how I would enter the pool and whether it was safe. It had been raining for four days now though, and I really wanted to have a swim – rain, wind and all.

I was caught in indecision

The thing is, the place I was standing at the edge of the pool was dangerous. I was standing in calf-deep water, and the pull-back from the water was very strong. So strong that I was in danger of losing my footing as the water receded after each wave.

Committing to any big change or decision, or your own transformation, can be like this.

You may be considering a new direction in our business or work, or a move to a new place to live. It may be something else.

Sometimes trying things on doesn’t really work.

There is a point, after considering the options, and taking all you need to into account, that you just have to jump.

In my case, standing on the edge watching the water was sensible for a little while. Asking questions like, is it safe? Is it a good idea? These made sense. But after that, a decision had to be made, either to step back onto dry land, or to jump in and swim to the middle.

It can be like this when considering big changes in life

We try to imagine what it will be like, while at the same time trying to cling to the shore, to what we know.

That morning, I didn’t want to get uncomfortable. I knew I wanted a swim, but it looked pretty wild in there, and so wet! I have a friend who often says that the water feels wetter at the beginning of the summer in Tasmania, when we first start to go snorkeling. It was a bit like that this day. Not cold, but just very, very wet.

Once I committed, though, and jumped in, it felt so good. It was cool and fresh and I came out refreshed and invigorated. It was actually much safer too. Even though the waves were crashing into the pool, the middle was the safest pace to be, as the waves bounced back from the edges and keep the middle quite stable.

Sometimes when we are contemplating a change, we can stand on the brink, in that awkward place of transition, trying to imagine how life might be if we make the choice.

If we stay there too long, it can get more and more uncomfortable. It is the attempt to cling to what we know that make it so difficult.

Preparing for the leap

Here are some things to consider when contemplating change

1. The Why of it: What is it that you love?

What is it that you most love? What do you care about deeply? What do you really want? This is important, because you need to care enough to be willing to be uncomfortable, to be in the unknown, and take a risk.

Your courage then comes from what you love. It pulls you along.

Once you get clear on this, the next step is easier. It makes the discomfort so much easier to bear.

2. Weigh your options

Consider all you can, do your research and spend time in contemplation to check with your heart, talk with friends, or a trusted guide.

3. Know that support is available, beyond what you might be aware of now

It is only when we take the leap that we gain access to the full support that is available. Once you have made the decision and have taken the plunge, then resources and support can flow your way. You may not even know what these are until you take the leap.

Once I jumped I was supported, by the water and by the pool itself.

Once you commit to something, then you stand at the centre of your experience, and resources unknown to you previously can become available.

4. It also helps to have support.

Like the pool that creates a container for my swimming among the waves and currents of the ocean, so can working with someone who can hold the space for you as you undergo the changes.

 

I’m Lure and I support women healers and creatives who want to share their gifts in the world, but who feel held back from what they know is possible.

If you’d like to learn more about how I might support you, I invite you to have a conversation with me. We’ll talk a little about what is going on for you, how I might help, and we find out if there is a resonance. These conversations are free and there is no obligation.

I have a limited number available in the next 2 weeks. If you feel the call, I invite you to contact me to request one of these.

*Now working from Island College in North Hobart, Tasmania*

From 14th March, I will be working from Island Health College in North Hobart.
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From 14th March, I will also be working again from South Hobart, as well as via long-distance sessions.

With love and appreciation,

Lure

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